We put in so much effort into the relationship and then you just throw it away. And don't say, oh I threw it away because it was bad and unhealthy and blah. I mean that's exactly why you work through it together to get past that shit and make it healthy and successful and we were working on it. But in reality no relationship is really happy dandy all the time; people go through hardships and encounter obstacles all the time. What proves to make a relationship successful is when both people are willing to do what's necessary to avoid certain situations. Because if you want someone that won't fight and clash with you over differences than just date yourself. Honestly, you'd probably just end up arguing with yourself too. Let's say you're Christian and I'm Atheist; I would learn to avoid conversation about beliefs because I know that that's one of our areas of difference. I mean, it's just about learning how to make things work to be with the one you love. Relationships are compromise and sacrifice, but that doesn't mean starving yourself or any unhealthy behavior like that; if anything that would harm the relationship. And couples annoy each other; they get on each others nerves much like your parents and siblings because these are people you spend a lot of time with. But because you love them you are willing to do what it takes to work through things with them and become ultimately united in the end. And these obstacles you get past will strengthen your relationship. If you are both willing and love each other, then there is a way. You can always make things right, if you work through them together as a team. And we emphasized on objectivity and making rational decisions so what better way to reach unity than to focus on reality and doing what's right to make the relationship successful. I told you let us be the exception in more than one way; let me show you. You have no right to say we're not if you didn't care to see it through. The potential was there. Yet you chose to throw it away. I understand you had to leave because yeah you needed space and time and you need to truly lose what you have to realize what you had and learn to value and appreciate. But I just fear that you never will, because it seems like you always push away the best things in your life. And then just come to whatever ignorant conclusion and rely on anger to help you move on. But why do you have to let it be that way? Don't ever say never, if you never mean forever. Life is what it is; it's what you make of it and get out of it.