Life

Objective qualities- Something that is true on it's own; something that exists independently. The color of a flower, the consistency of syrup, the bumpy texture of a surface, the size of a melon, the measurement of a bust, someone's weight, a circular shape. Visual objective qualities aid in communication, to describe an object or scene. The night is dark, the sun is bright, the freezer is cold, the ice cream is creamy, the orange is round, the rock is hard, etc. Tall and short. Thin and thick. Young and old. A new shirt versus an old tattered shirt. A prickly cactus, a thorny rosebush, a muddy trail, a slippery floor, a freckly face, a fuzzy pillow...

Loving someone is finding meaning in life because everything seems more wonderful when you experience it with them; they fill you with passion and motivation to want to live and do good things and to make them proud. And you begin to find meaning in everything; things they do and say because it affects you in such an amazing way...

People seem to defend opinions as if they're a way to justify stupidity. As if someone's opinions are just as reputable as knowledge. Whether someone thinks another person is a whore, does not qualify the person as such; the truth is the truth so either they're a whore or they're not (under qualified standards). The truth exists independently and people seem to forget that when they're so wrapped up in their own feelings. You're entitled to your own naive opinions, but not your own facts. And if you're a rational intelligent person, then facts should affect your feelings about something.

The reality is that humans are inherently selfish creatures, so finding someone who genuinely gives a shit about you and remains by your side through the years is not likely. Sure you can find nice people who want to help you and are just generally nice, but (with personal agendas aside) for the person to actually stick with you through thick and thin is not common in relationships. There's more separation than unity in this world riddled with conflict and chaos. If anything, that should be reason to value the people you have in your life more and if you're fortunate enough to find someone who follows through and perseveres and never leaves your side then never let them go.